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Keeping the Writing Going When Your Life is in Chaos by Allie Pleiter

In writing my book How to WRITE When Everything Goes WRONG, I spoke with many authors about how they tackle the challenge of meeting a deadline under far less than ideal circumstances. As you might think, the answer is as individual as every writer, but there have been some universal tactics I think are worth sharing.  I know these have been true for me:

 

1. Try small batches in new formats

The trick is to pick a word count that feels doable–even if it must be tiny. One hundred words, for example, can fit on an index card. I suspect even the most traumatized of writers could manage six imperfect sentences that can be edited later. That work, once accomplished, can become the foothold for more. Can you tuck three or four cards into your pocket and set yourself the challenge to fill them? Your smartphone, a small notebook, or even email can help a small task feel small. All you need at first–maybe all you need at all–are baby steps.

 

2. Change locations.

I was under contract during my son’s chemo. While it sounds drastic, chemotherapy involves a lot of waiting and patients often sleep. A laptop and a highly transportable muse made writing in the hospital room or chemo suite possible for me. You may discover, however, that you need to give yourself even 30 minutes in a different location in order to allow your brain enough space to compartmentalize. Maybe you can’t write in the hospital suite, but you can manage it in a nearby coffee bar. Ritualize it if it helps–“at 2 pm I walk across the street to get my cup of coffee and do my writing” or “when I get home from taking care of Mom I make myself a cup of tea and write.” Remind yourself this is your time to work, and when you return to wherever this crisis is currently set, you can be fully present knowing you’ve done your needed work.

 

3. Don’t feel guilty if you crave the escape writing offers.

One writer I know was surprised to discover that trauma shut down her internal editor and allowed words to gush out. As a romance author, she craved the happy ending her work offered when life seemed fresh out of happiness. Should that be your case, embrace that for the gift it is. Every cloud has a silver lining, why shouldn’t this be yours? Take care that you don’t ignore a crisis that needs your attention, but remind yourself—and others—that it is okay to work if it helps you cope.

 

4. Know when to surrender.

After pushing on towards a deadline, one writer friend stopped altogether when she knew her father was in his last days. When the stress of my son’s illness finally took its toll on my own health, my agent gave me a straightforward “halt” command, and I obeyed it. Face the truth that you can’t write through everything. Every workplace has a leave policy–give yourself one as well.

While it’s true the nature of our work draws on deeper wells than some jobs, we won’t be the first person to have to work through a crisis.  With a little help and self-care, it is possible.

How about you?  What tactics have you used to protect your creativity in a crisis?

Love this advice? Join Allie for her new class:  How to Write When Everything Goes Wrong with Allie Pleiter  starting soon!


 

How do you keep the words pouring onto the page when your real life feels like it’s under attack? Every writer knows how stress and personal crises can strangle your creativity. Help is on the way in this brilliantly practical guide. Inside, you’ll find advice that:
– Gets you through the thick of your crisis
– Gives you tactics that will energize you to keep writing
– Teaches you to use your stress to inspire your writing
– And much more!
As the author of over 30 books and the creator of The Chunky Method of time management for writers, Pleiter has met deadlines in the midst of some imposing traumas. With candor, insight, and the wisdom of experience, she shares practical and inventive strategies for how to stay afloat and creative amid life’s stormiest seas.

Buy this book!

 

An avid knitter, coffee junkie and unreformed chocoholic, Allie Pleiter writes both fiction and non-fiction working on as many as four novels at a time. The enthusiastic but slightly untidy bestselling author of over thirty published titles, Allie spends her days writing, buying yarn, and finding new ways to avoid housework. Allie hails from Connecticut, moved to the midwest to attend Northwestern University, and currently lives outside Chicago, Illinois. The “dare from a friend” to begin writing has produced an eighteen-year career with over 1.4 million books sold. In addition to writing, Allie maintains an active writing productivity coaching practice and speaks regularly on faith, the creative process, women’s issues, and her very favorite topic—The Chunky Method of time management for writers. Visit her website at www.alliepleiter.com to learn more.
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Thanks for hosting me. I look forward the next week's online class!
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  • September 27, 2018
That's really awesome article!
    A
    Thanks. You may enjoy the whole book as well--this is only a tiny piece of the strategies I share.
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Thank you for this inspiring article. I have many difficulties in my life, but I've never stopped to write my small novels and essays. I believe that one day they will find its readers, and persons who will enjoy my writing. A few weeks ago, I've lost my inspiration for writing, but I hope that soon this will back to me. You said a right words about that person should change locations to stay motivated and inspired. Soon I would like to throw a backpack over one's shoulder and travel around the world and just keep writing my novels. I hope that you will continue sharing this type of content.
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    Thank you so much for sharing. Yes, it's easy to lose your inspiration in tough times. And yet, writing is so essential to who many of us are that we underestimate how we need to keep it going in some form. I hope you rediscover your writing joy soon!
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