Thank you Irene for this chat, and thank you Kathleen for posting.
I have birthdays for 3 of my sons this month, 3 Wednesdays in a row but I do plan on being at chat tonight. Last Wednesdays was pizza and beer.
I was happy to see that I did not score high on the perfectionism quiz. I am accused of this quite regularly
but I think I'm mostly over my avoiding the pain of sucking at something.
Yay me
.
My problem now is just savagely scattered attention and slow thinking. When working out plot problems my brain chunks along like a 1st gen IBM. Often the answers are at the edges of my awareness and I can't grab them, I have to wait until they come to me. All these realizations made me happy because if all I need is time, I have that (and can make more
).