1. Do you learn from your mistakes?
I try to learn from my mistakes. When I submit a piece of writing to be read, I really listen to what they say. I try to keep the suggestion in mind as I write, trying to prevent the same writing mistake. I haven't published, so I don't have any of those type of mistakes to learn from-yet.
2. Do you create plans of actions? If so, how?
When it comes to improving my writing, and not repeating mistakes, I look for podcasts, books or classes on craft that would improve that certain skill. I focus on that, reading lots of mentor texts to see how another author did it in their book (for example- how they write first person present, or how they describe a scene or how they address the characters motivation in first person).
3. Do you resent another writer's success?
no. That would be a waste of energy.
4. Do you give up after your first rejection of a manuscript?
No, although I am not trying to get traditionally published at this time.
5. Do you fear solitude?
I don't fear it, but it is hard to get. When my kids are awake, even though they are older, they really demand my attention. My husband travels frequently, so when he is home, I try to be "present". When everyone goes to bed, I try to stay up and write, but I get up at 430 am, so staying up late, in a quiet room just makes me sleepy. I am still looking for the best time of day to carve out some good writing time. Searching for that balance in my schedule has been tough. So, no fear of solitude, but it is elusive.
6. Do you multi-task alot? Constantly.
How can you refrain from multi-tasking as much?
As mentioned in #5, I am still trying to find that perfect hour or two of quiet where I can work without falling asleep or my family feeling I am neglecting them. So, I multi-task the things I can to try to find that time. Carving out that hour would help with that.
7. Do you expect immediate results?
Not really, I do want to see at least baby steps towards the success I am working towards. (weight loss, improved running stamina, improved writing skills, etc.) I think I have pretty realistic expectations of my growth in skills.
8. Do you merely focus on results, such as publication, and don't take steps to enjoy the journey? How can you take steps to enjoy the journey more?
Hm. I think I have been focused on steps the end. Therefore, I have been enjoying it when I reach a goal (getting book cover designed, writing the blurb, a successful beta read, finishing a chapter or meeting another writing goal). I recognize the enormity of the task of getting a book to publication. I have a certain standard for myself and the book I put my name on. I want it to be the best book it can be. So, I am pretty patient for the process. I want a book I can be really proud of. So, each step towards that is great. I hope I have a pretty good checklist for completion that I am following.
I loved the response to my book cover, I loved the response from my writer friends who read the last draft (which won't be the last draft as I have a several page long editing letter to apply to it). So, these are the things I am focused on . Getting each step right towards the final product.